I really love Buddhism because it is so human. Of course we cannot help everyone.. especially if there is a barb in the relationship. But lo and behold a teaching that allows us to grow in our compassion and in our humanity... It reminds me of :if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all"-- In other words.. do no harm. Learning about Tibetan bowls and sound healing is also learning to be a better human being.